Gender - U prefer ger or boy leh?

From the same forums *gosh* Till this day, still have Zhong Nan Qing Nu meh? :(

"I am surprised to see that so many mummies out there "suffer" the same fate as me. coz b4 i was even preg, i nvr tot that in this modern society, there'r many pp who still deem boy as superior. even alot of my friends who are my age already "plan" for me to try for a boy...*sigh*.. so its not abt older generation. my GMIL too!! when we brought our 1st gal to visit her, she keep asking if she is gal or boy, if we ans gal, she will ask again..quite funny actually. until my hb say its "boy" then she stop asking! n she told me i must continue to have more boys, coz sons are ours, whereas daus are other's. she meant after dau marry,she belong to other pp's... i was not angry with her, coz i tot she very funny, me n my hb had a good laugh..also she abit senile liao"

"Another time happened abt 1 year back before I had my 2nd one, I was real mad with dat auntie. My inlaw's neighbour saw us with my elder kid at the lobby waiting for the lift and she came up and ask boy or girl? I thot it was quite obvious with the clothes my girl wore but still, wanting to be polite, I replied girl. Then in the lift, she tried to play with my girl and said "nvm, grow up will be boy liao!"

"i remembered this incident i came across in a foodcourt months ago. I was there having dinner with my hubby and my girl. A few tables next to us came a family of four. dad, mum, 4-5 year old daughter and a 3 year old son. Both Dad and mum went to buy food and asked the elder girl to reserved the place by sitting there and also to look after her younger brother. The brother was hopping around the table, refuse to sit on the chair despite his sister's request. Then came one point the boy decided to run round the foodcourt and disappear within seconds. The sister cried out for the parents in fear yet she doesn't dare to leave the table to chase after the brother as she suppose to 'reserve' the table. Both parents came back with the food, then the father went to look for the brother. Guess what the mum says to the girl? She accused her of not loving the brother, always fighting with him, that's why he ran away. "If you love him, why would he want to run away".... I couldn't believe my ears! First of all, it's too heavy a responsibility to ask the girl to look after such a mischievious boy while also having to reserve the table. It doesn't hurt to have one parent with them! And the best part of all, the biy didn;t even get a scolding when he came back with the father. The mum just fed him food so lovingly while the sister was crying out of fear and guilt. My hubby and i really can't help but give them a dirty look (don't know they notice or not)cos we just couldn't believe it!..... We thot the boy deserve to be spank for not listening to instructions! I would love to spank him myself! Still feel so angry and pity the girl whenever i recall this incident. With a family like that, how to grow healthy???? Feel like giving the mother a tight slap to wake her up."

"Aiyo, u dun know such things (DIL expect to hv boy) still exist ah? this is happening to my hb fam. that is y my SIL is SUPER stress, she has 2 gals. my MIL will directly pressure my SIL. so much so that she seems obsessed with having a son. coz my pil say mean things to her like if its a gal, they dun wan the bb, n mil ask her to keep a secret abt the gender when she knew was a gal ... so silly, how to keep a secret?! so my SIL gets very tense up w each of my preg, i guess she's afraid i'll hv a boy"

I find this one very funi, lol: "Wow didn't know so many of you are experiencing the discrimination as well. I thought I am being too sensitive for getting angry at their remarks. My Mum and MIL said when they found out it's a girl "Nmind, can help do housework!" I laugh at her comment! Is that the only thing girls can do? Can't they be the next Olivia Lum? Or Eunice Olsen? It's like all girls are born to be useless. All these people very so shorted-sighted."

"Before I gave birth to my eldest son, my hb and I casually asked his mother whether she preferred a grandson or granddaughter. She said it didn't matter as long as the child was healthy. When I celebrated my son's 1st mth, she told my mom that her son brought glory to their family by having a boy.

'didn't matter", ya right!"

This one prefer gers, lol

"My hubby called his mum, and told her we are expecting a girl. MIL was overjoyed to hear tt we are expecting a girl, and say, house too many MONKEYS.. kekek girl better.. lol.. Well, at least my MIL think otherwise.... "

Reading the above, feel abit wat lor (i tink u gals noe wat i mean) ;D Oh well..i guess its impossible to have equality between the sexes..i mean, men & women are already different in the 1st plc rite? How to equal?? Hope my one will be a ger :) If its not.....ZzZzzz....